no matter how reasonable your rationalization for doing so sounds to you,
is just not Elven, doesn't even approach wisdom of any sort, Elven or otherwise,
and is most probably due to the fact that one simply hasn't known them
as these elves have, as our beloved brothers and sisters."
This, on the surface, doesn't seem like a
particularly magical or spiritual question or to have much to do with elves and
fae, but really at its essence it is a moral question, thus a spiritual one and
therefore a magical question and all things magical concern the elves and fae
folk.
We know that there are numerous folks who
hate transgender individuals using various rationalizations for doing so. They
will say it is against their religion, or it is part of a plot by the powerful
to turn us into robots or something, but the truth is they just don't like
anyone who is different than they are and are just habituated to having someone
to hate.
Therefore, it becomes an elven question because
hating a person or group of people just for being a part of a certain group is
essentially unwise and most definitely un-elven. It is not that some elf or fae
couldn't rationalize a prejudice against transgender people but in doing so
they are following the ways of the normal folk, of mankind, and thus creating
an act of magic that makes them, de facto, more mannish. Thereby, losing part
of their elven essence. It is an essential principle of magic that what we do,
we become. When we follow the ways of men we become like them. What true elf
would wish to do that?
Elves, for our own part, have ever been
seen as more balanced in the male and female aspects of our being than most
folks. Our males seem gentler, refined and thus slightly more effeminate than
other folks and our females have ever had a tomboyish quality to them. This is
due to the fact that we tend to be psychologically more integrated as
individuals, as Carl Jung would have pointed out.
Some folks may not believe that they have
an inner feminine side as males or masculine side as females and that this is
just some mumbo jumbo made up by shrinks. But science now shows us that all
people begin formation into the human body as potentially female (with X chromosomes)
and it is just the contribution of a single chromosome by the father (Y chromosome)
that determines the gender of the fetus. When this happens, the Y chromosome
triggers latent embryonic development as a male and the clitoris extends and
the ovaries externalize into testicles, or one might even say extravert.
We also know that after the contribution
of the Y chromosome, the mother sends a biochemical wash into the placenta that
'dumbs down' the fetus tending to make it stronger physically but often less
intelligent. We assume this was because cave-women needed someone to move the
boulders around in the cave (and now in modern times the furniture), and also
needed someone who would go out and deal with dangerous creatures
and potentially get killed doing so.
Elven males, being by nature more balanced
between their masculine and feminine aspects, probably don't or didn't get as
potent a wash as other races do. But we still realize that, for the most part,
elven females are generally smarter than the males.
But, back to our discussion of transgender
individuals. Recently, these elves were visiting in the eastern United
States and a person there, who we have always known to be an extremely compassionate person
and exceptionally liberal for that region of the country, told us that she just
didn't know what to think about transgender people. Silver Flame asked her if she
had actually known a transgender person personally and she said that she had not (and being the loving person she is, she totally agreed that would help) and
that is the essence of the matter. In our experience, most folks who voice misgivings
and prejudice about transgender people and say it is because it is against their religion or
common understanding of people or even because they think it is a plot or
conspiracy of some sort, have never actually known any transgender individuals on
a personal basis.
These elves have known numerous transgender
people and they have all been very lovely and bright people, most often elven
or fae by nature. In fact, some of our sisters of the Elf Queen's Daughters
were transgender individuals and we owe them a debt of gratitude for awakening
us, introducing us to great depths of esoteric, occult and magical lore,
initiating us into some of the deeper mysteries and mostly for just embracing
us, loving us and nurturing us when most of the rest of the world merely viewed
as as weirdos who failed to conform and thus shunned us. We can only think that
those who promote prejudice against transgender individuals don't really know
them that well.
And really, how is having one's gender
changed different than any other plastic surgery (perhaps a bit more complicated)
but really, it is, in a sense, not that different than having one's nose done,
or getting a face lift or hair implants or even than going to the dentist and
getting crowns on one's teeth so we don't look like a bunch of snaggle-toothed
orcs (not that all orcs are snaggle-toothed, mind you; it would be just as
unwise to stereotype orcs or any other people).
So we say to you again, promoting discrimination
against transgender individuals, no matter how reasonable your rationalization
for doing so sounds to you, is just not elven, doesn't even approach wisdom of
any sort, elven or otherwise, and is most probably due to the fact that one simply
hasn't known them as these elves have, as our beloved brothers and sisters.
Ver Nesidas mellun vari te (In shimmering starlight ever be),
The Silver Elves
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To help you navigate your way through this world of mankind, we think you will enjoy reading:
Gaea de las Aguas writes on Amazon in her review of What An Elf Would Do:
“Think of this as “Ms. Manners” for the Otherkin set. Ever
wondered how to handle yourself with grace and style whilst traversing the
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as a skilled and artful Noble are here in abundance.
Insight into human behavior patterns and tips on how to deal with difficult personality quirks are found on just about every page. Delivered with a lovely sense of humour (I’ve laughed out loud many times), the Silver Elves bring us a reference guide to assist with polishing our manners and bringing etiquette back to our daily lives.”
Insight into human behavior patterns and tips on how to deal with difficult personality quirks are found on just about every page. Delivered with a lovely sense of humour (I’ve laughed out loud many times), the Silver Elves bring us a reference guide to assist with polishing our manners and bringing etiquette back to our daily lives.”
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We also invite you to check out our book in which we look closely at what is normal!
ELVEN PSYCHOLOGY:
Understanding the Elfin Psyche and the Evolutionary and Esoteric Purpose of
Mental Disorders! Come read all about it, the introduction, and table of
contents on the link below: Readers idea of normal will be forever changed!
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Elven Psychology: Understanding the Elfin Psyche and
the Evolutionary and Esoteric Purpose of Mental Disorders
the Evolutionary and Esoteric Purpose of Mental Disorders
ELVEN PSYCHOLOGY
is written from a unique elven perspective about the present day human
condition, which includes an exploration of the psyché of both normal folk and
elfae. We elves are elven by spirit, so our entrance into humanity is the
addition of a new spiritual race, not a new physical race, and elves have been
born in these modern times into all physical races, as well as most cultures
and religions throughout the world. In fact, there are many who are following
esoteric Ancient Wisdom Traditions, as well as some Tolkienists, who through
the process of benevolent evolution, see ‘elf as the new normal’ or majority of
humankind in the not so distant future. So, it is important to update many
areas of academia that explore, express, and explain human life; psychology
being one of these.
Thus this book expands the realms of modern psychology,
which has never before included the elves and otherkin population as being real.
If one says that they are an elf, most psychologists today will still hold you
in suspect of having a delusionary disorder and try to evaluate you further. We
explain in Elven Psychology why from a standard psychological point of view
that believing you are an elf does not in itself constitute a disorder even in
traditional psychology, and then we go much further and explore the disorders
and psychological struggles that we observe in our modern society in both
normal folk and elves/otherkin, along with the spiritual purposes of disorders
and new perspectives for healing.
Calling All Elfin Kin!
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Have you always wanted to hear elves speak in Arvyndase, the magical language of The Silver Elves?
Come listen as Zardoa speaks Arvyndase (SilverSpeech) and Silver Flame
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subscribe, like and comment! https://youtu.be/unUkxT9QbNE And for further reading on the elven way and following the elven path, we suggest:
THE MAGICAL REALMS OF ELFIN: Answers to Questions About Being an Elf and Following the Elven Path contains questions and answers about being elven that many people who are exploring the Elven Way have posed to The Silver Elves throughout the 40 + years that they have been living and sharing the Elven Way. The Silver Elves have put them all in this one book for all those who need a convenient, yet thorough and easy-to-read, resource to explore their questions about who the modern elves are and about the Elven Way or elven spiritual path — past, present and future. If you are curious about elves and want to learn more about modern elves and the Elven Path, then you will surely find this book to contain many of your questions answered and it will be a great comfort and help in finding your way home to the Magical Realms of Elfin.
